Thursday, April 30, 2009

Speculations...



There's been a few speculations here and there about why and HOW i lost my Emma Malisa...Truth is, Allah (s.w.t) loves her more, which is why she was taken away from me. There's a reason why we malays say "Ada Hikmah disebalik nye" and why Westerners say "There's a silver lining in between".
I am being strong to believe in the hikmah or the silver lining...

But here and there, people are saying I lost her because of the sexy clothes I wear.....if wearing sexy causes miscarriage, then it is acceptable for one to judge me by saying it...But there is no scientific and medical link to say that the clothes you wear will make your baby suffocate, heart stop, distorted etc...

The reason why people in the years before wear loose dresses, its because that was the ONLY option you have...You either get it long sleeved, short sleeved, three quarter sleeve or sleeveless...But its still the above ankle, below knee dress with a ribbon to tie behind your waist...

Anyway, here's a few links to what we wear will not cause baby's discomfort whatsoever...It may cause discomfort for me, but it certainly wont cause a miscarriage...

From babycenter...
link to babycenter abt stylish clothes during pregnancy

Most pregnant women before avoid wearing sexy clothes probably because they are not comfortable with their body. But thanks to celebrities in Hollywood, and education, people nowadays are accepting their body more evidently. Pregnant women nowadays love showing their bumps. It only shows that they are confident women carrying a baby.







here's a link how well protected is your fetus in your womb...

Be thankful for what you have and stop speculating what others have lost...I would not wish what happened to me to my worse enemy, let alone speculate openly to them about it...Its the worse thing one can do..

Monday, April 20, 2009

Anugerah Bintang Popular


I would like to thank all my fans for supporting me. I am sorry I did not manage to attend the ceremony, but rest assured, those that supported me, my fans, family and friends are all in my thoughts, always. I would also like to say thank u to my beloved husband for his support in my career.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

What really happened...

Its sad to read all the gossips in the forum about how I lost my precious baby, Emma Malisa... I'm going to tell you the real story here, and I hope no one will spread rumors about the tragedy after this...

I had premature labour contractions. When I went to the hospital, they confirmed that my baby didn't have a heartbeat anymore, therefore I was on emergency labour which they induced me, and Aruah Emma Malisa was born and kebumikan on Friday 9th March. She was 6 and 1/2 months.

Therefore, the stories about my husband beat me up lah, or I fell lah, which made me miscarriage are ALL NOT TRUE.

My husband and I are both devastated with our lost. Not forgetting my family too...

I hope with this post, no one will write nonsense about how I lost my precious Emma...