Wednesday, April 15, 2009

What really happened...

Its sad to read all the gossips in the forum about how I lost my precious baby, Emma Malisa... I'm going to tell you the real story here, and I hope no one will spread rumors about the tragedy after this...

I had premature labour contractions. When I went to the hospital, they confirmed that my baby didn't have a heartbeat anymore, therefore I was on emergency labour which they induced me, and Aruah Emma Malisa was born and kebumikan on Friday 9th March. She was 6 and 1/2 months.

Therefore, the stories about my husband beat me up lah, or I fell lah, which made me miscarriage are ALL NOT TRUE.

My husband and I are both devastated with our lost. Not forgetting my family too...

I hope with this post, no one will write nonsense about how I lost my precious Emma...

74 comments:

suezensuzanna said...

ok...noted that...anyway....congrats for the abp:)

wawan said...

mungkin ade hikamh di sebalik kejadian..harap dynaz dapat bsabar dgn dugaan Allah..we all love u =)

Yaniez said...

takziah... :(

apa pun tahniah menang ABP...

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efairuz said...

takziah,

as a mother, i know how u feel if im in your shoes..

tp Tuhan lebih sayangkan baby tu kan..mesti ade hikmah di sebalik semua kejadian..

byk2 bersabar..


*congratulations on ur winning!!

:)

dialicious said...

yeke org ckp camtu?i didnt hear anything about the rumours.i only know about the heartbeat complication.Its ok..dpt jgk merasa mcm mane pregnant kan.ur rezeki will come more after this.Tuhan nak uji u coz u r one strong lady.congrats on the winning of anugerah!

aNnAsUeJiE said...

takziah babe~
be strong & dun worry ya,for sure arwah emma happy disampingNya...die boleh doakan mummy die dari sana... =)

school of thoughts said...

hi dear... sorry to hear for the lost. take care of yourself for a quick recovery. your emma will always be with you... from there, above. oh, btw, i also didnt hear anything about the rumour, kalau ada pun, i will just ignore it. I know how much love you and hubby had given to her.

e.t.t.y said...

take care and sabar byk2 ye..

AkmaWeDSpiDey! said...

tke a gd cre...
sbo je...

Ma'am_Chelsea said...

Takziah sis...

Kuatkan semangatmu k!!!

Tuhan dah atur yg terbaik buatmu...

Take care ...

busyuksayang said...

takziah to u & family...what the most important now, u take a good care & be strong...He knows whats the best for us...we'll always with u...muahsss

Diana Wardrobe said...

takziah kak dynas.. and congrats ABP..

waNiFarees said...

HuuuUU... jaNGan sesedey ye kak dynas.. mungKin ada rezeki yang lebeh baik lagi!!

vi0let chem said...

takziah...

cube lagi ea...=)

farah said...

kak dynas..takziah..bwk bnyk2 bsabar e..mgkn ade hikmah d sebaliknye..

take g0od care of urself sis ;)

Diva PariTs said...

HUGS

be strong k!

hezesuze said...

dugaan buat mu kak dinaz...same kes cam saya...

2x lahir baby pra matang meninggal dunia...

ada hikmah disebalik kejadian...hope kak dinaz tabah okey

naura.budak.pink said...

i'm srry dynas,
be strong yea?
n congratz for the ABP.

Syamsul said...

Be strong =) and i m sure you and ur husband will make it through =)

icha said...

yeap..be strong and take care of yourself.. =)

Anonymous. said...

i lost my baby sister when she was 7 months, still inside my mother's womb.

i am not a mother yet but i know the feelings. i was so desperate for a lil' sis, but she didn't make it. even at 11 year-old, i was devastated too.

be strong, sis. and congratulations on your recent winning!

CUteY^ANgEL said...

kak dynaz u knw i was shocked with the news...

anyway... i want u to knw tht all of us (ur fans) will always support u. no matter what happen to u...

take a good care and be strong... insyaallah the right time will come and remember He know the best.

btw.. congratulation for ur ABP winning.. hope it can cheer u up a lil bit..

i love u so much kak dynaz...

darling8tabby said...

salam dynas,
salam takziah, bersabar banyak..munkin ada hikmah di sebalik..
take care babe..

E.L.L.Y.N said...

takziah dynas,

ada hikmah tu semua..

sabar yek

imi @ is @ lynn said...

Dynas, Takziah & take care.

Deqna said...

Takziah. Semoga sabar dan redha. Terkejut gak dengar berita nie.

~~@mRiT~~ said...

Hi Dynaz...

So sorry for your lost precious baby....do have faith in "Allah" maybe he has sumthing good for her by his side...

Be strong...and overcome your situation positively and everything will be fine...

A warm congratz on your wining in ABP

nURmALa mAZLan said...

takziah...
setiap yg berlaku ada hikmahnyer

bEe HoNeY said...

slm k.dynas...takziah buat akak sekuarga....

'
jgn bersedih...ujian adalah terbiyyah dari Allah. Adakah kita kan sabar @pun sebaliknya ....ketenangan yg dtg selepas kesusahan semuanya adalah hikmah allah'

E.L.I.Z.A said...

Salam Dynas,
Takziah...really sad for what had happen to U..
I hope U tabah my dear
Ada hikmah di sebaliknya

mira zin said...

takziah diucapkn to kak D and hubby also to the rest of the family..

auni firdina said...

takziah dynas..moga dynas tabah mengarunginyer..ALLAH lbh sygkn arwah EMMA MELISA..

YaNNazMiN said...

sabar dynaz..saye faham perasaan awk sbb saye pon telah alami apa yg awak alami.. I loss my baby..

xperla dia akan tunggu kita di sana.. tabahkan hati, kita adalah insan terpilih..hopefully cpt dpt baby lg..

faiz said...

hi dynaz, sorry for the lost..sabar byk2 k...Insyallah ada rezeki lagi lepas nie...and don't bother about the rumours out there..setiap kejadian ada hikmahnya and be strong..both of u!!

~DiEyRa~ said...

takziah Dynas... sorry for the bad news...dont worry... rezeki masih ada for u n hubby

swit@kon said...

sorry for your lost dear dynaz

Miss Hazzy said...

byk2 bersabar...

al-fathihah pada arwah...

Iera said...

sbr ye dynas..iera pn pernah rs mcm dynas rs..insyaallah..nanti ada rezeki lg..biarkan apa yg org nak fikir ttg kejadian ni. apa yg penting sekarang, dynas tenang dlm berpantang..

mummysyafie said...

takziah dynas

eventho orang kater kandungan selepas 4 bulan dah "kuat" tapi one of my friend pun penah keguguran bila kandungan dah mencecah 6 bulan.

apa pun harap dynas tabah. ada hikmah semua ni.

ibu_uwais_ameenah said...

takziah dynas..

ArELeEz said...

takziah..

mama_irfan said...

Takziah Dynaz for yr lost...Hrp u and hubby byk bersabar yer...Setiap yg berlaku pasti ader hikmahnyer....I pun mcm u jugak after 3 times miscarriage at last I able to get a little cute boy...berbaloi jugak kesabaran dan penantian I selama 10 tahun selepas berkahwin...Cuma kita perlu percaya dan redha...setiap apa yg berlaku itu pasti ada hikmahnya....Sabar yer....

miss bobby said...

Dynas.
My sister had the same thing happened but her's was on the day of the labor itself.
she did went frantic.
but afterall, things happened.

you're young. still can try again.
do not lose hope.

btw, i've visited ur boutiques several times.
sila tambah wedges yang cantek?

dan dress yang tidak lah terlalu panjang.
El suggest pakai kasot tinggi2 bile pakai dress.
but i bukan model macam u. hoho.

bagus2 ye dynas.
take care.

Y@ZeD@ said...

salam takziah.. sorry about ur lost..

b strong k..!!

sherry alasrar said...

Dynas, sorry to hear bout ur lost..i totally understand what ur goin thru as i too had gone thru miscarriage during my first child..its devastated and words cant describe the feelings..

Forget what people are saying and you have to always stay strong and believe that ada hikmah disebalik all of this..ini dugaan Allah..Insyallah ur daughter Arwah Emma Malissa is waiting for you masa akhirat kelak..

u take good care of urself ya and always think positive as both you and your hubby need one another now..ur fans out there would support n pray for you..never feel depressed as it would not be good for you..insyaallah past ada rezeki nanti..

Zalina said...

dynaz, salam takziah dari akak. mudah2an dynaz dan suami sentiasa tabah dan sabar dgn ujian ini dan mudah2an Allah anugerahkan pengganti aruah Emma secepat mungkin. Amin...

Shmea said...

my heartfelt condolences to u & your family kak dynas.

i know it must be hard to accept the lost of your first child. i too, have gone through miscarriage before.

please take care of your health ya. insyaAllah, ada rezeki lagi in the future.

Munirah Abd said...

takziah n take care..
bykkan bersabar
semua yg berlaku ada ketentuannya..

PinKtEddYLurVeR said...

be strong k~

there's always rainbow after the rain~

congrats on the winning~

adore you!!!!!!!

Nazihah Adli said...

may Allah bless her and U

Anggerek said...

sis,

Take good care. Allah knows BEST. Be patient.

azrea syazwan said...

hye, we were shocked to hear the news. takziah from my family. my family and i were at the hospital when u jst had ur last checkup done in march. wish u and ur family the best. take a good care.

♥♥cHeNta_tiEha♥♥ said...

slm takziah...

peeks by Min said...

semoga tabah dalam menghadapi ujianNya

Effa MG said...

salam takziah...
hope be strong tuk tempuhinya....

WaN dAn TiE said...

takziah..
insyallah ia akan manjadi bidadari..
syurga menunggu dynas di sana ..
ok

ShaZa's said...

Hi Dynaz,
Takziah and bykkan bersabar ya diatas pemergian Emma Malisa. Allah sentiasa akan Uji kita dan Allah nk tgk samada kita redha dan sabar tak utk terima ujian daripadaNYA. Semoga Allah mencucuri rahmat ke atah aruh Emma Malisa. AMINNNNN..
Tahniah juga diatas kemenangan Dynaz ms ABP ya.
Take care.

yaNadzuL said...

banyak bersabar..cuba lagi..

aziahzuber ialah name saye. said...

dynaz.. am sorry for the lost. hope u're okey. take care.

ErinZ Site said...

Salamz..

:: Kak dynas jangan kerja kuat2 sangat..jaga kesihatan ok...
:: Neway tahniah untuk ABP..tahun depan harap kak dynas dpat lagi award tu..

dbab said...

helo dynaz..just one of your readers :P hope you are feeling well, dont worry..rezeki dan ketentuan di tangan tuhAN..keep on trying ey! hugs..

Ietams said...

takziah dynas

atty's said...

takziah dynas...be patient ok..

Snowwhite Zone said...

Salam takziah

Leen Die said...

salam dynas..takziah di atas pemergian arwah Emma melisa..semoga arwah abadi DISANA..Arwah akan menunggu ibu bapanya DISANA..jangan sedih2 yer..berat mata memandang berat lagi bahu memikul..kiter faham perasaan dynas setelah bergelar ibu.insyaallah nanti ada rezeki utk second bb pulak..tahniah diatas kemenangan DYnas utk ABPH08..
Be strong Gurl...

mollyjinxed said...

owh dear..

sabar ya dynaz... everything happened for a reason

allah loved her more..

take care beb

Gina said...

hi there Dynas...
Sorry to hear abt ur lost...
Stay healthy k...

And of course congrats on winning the awards dear....
Keep up with ur good acting in drama or films....
You go Girl......cheers*

ciare (^_^)v said...

Salam.hye Dinas.1st time leaving comment here :)

Be strong girl. pasti ada hikmat atas apa yg tlh terjadi..

Keep on shining ya =D

Che Aliaa said...

be strong dynas.. ;)
Allah Maha Mengetahui..

nurulhaza said...

be strong dynas!!

Adila said...

Takziah... I lost my baby too.. on 20th feb.. 2 weeks before you..

Mummy Edrez said...

My baby boy was born on 17th March 2009. Being a mother, I couldn't imagine myself being strong in your situation. Nevertheless, there's always positivity in a negativity, there's always brightness in a darkness.

D'Gift Boxes said...

I just bought seri dewi & keluarga magazine and i was wondering what was the cause of ur loss.. i lost my first baby when i was 31 weeks pregnant..it was really a nightmare to my husband n me..people will always put their ridiculous assumptions and it hurts.. i know how u feel. fortunately, now..i'm 16 weeks pregnant, i hope Allah will take a good care of us this time. insyallah.congratz to u for having such cute baby. wish me to have one soon. =)